If you would like to make Latvian woman like you – you have to be ‘the man’. In all connotations and shades of this word.
Most of the time you have to be positive, but sometimes you may be even irritated by something (though it is not necessary) and to show your character.
Have you heard that most of the women like when man is a little ignorant towards them? Latvian women are not an exception. If you are trying to build up strong relationship with Latvian woman you have to keep her in tonus (in a positive way of understanding this). I will explain. You have to play kind of the game where you ‘grab the blanket’ and give her to ‘grab the blanket’ as well. It means you have to be attentive, kind to her, but not too much. Keep the balance in everything and in everyday relations with Latvian woman especially. You have to give her personal space and at the same time to remind her about your existence.
Give her some time to think about you when she is alone. To interest her you have to be in focus of her attention, but smart ignorance is very important as well. For example, it is not good when you are messaging and calling her first all the time. Even if you really want to call her and feel such inevitable need.
You have to show her your man’s character, otherwise she would get used that you are doing everything to her and would treat you as already conquered one. Such type of guy within some time might become not interesting to her or what is worse – she would get bored of you, and your messages and calls would only irritate her. If at this time on the horizon appears some cute guy, who will pay attention to her – chances are high she would go for him. As you understand, this is the direct way till the end of your relationship.
In order not to make it happen you have to play the game of smart ignorance. This is sometimes not easy, but this helps her to get more interested in you, you will be not ‘conquered’ for her and she would keep finding the way to do this every day. This means she would remain interested in you and intrigued, this would help her to understand importance of your relationship and whether you both need each other or not.
How to play the ignorance game? As I said before, it would be not that easy. Writing a text message with wish of the good day is enough for this day. Then check her reaction. If you usually called her during break on the work or had some conversations during lunch – since this day you should not call her first. If later she asks you why you didn’t call her you can tell you had really busy day at work. Wait until she calls you first or writes something. If she called first, you can answer, but after conversation ended you have to continue playing the ignorance game this day. If she writes or calls you first then it is great. The next day you have to act like you previously did, but in a three days period according to the situation you have to stop teasing her by ignorance. If she does not call you or write you, this means bad news for you. Though it is hard to believe, she might lost interest in you and you have to be emotionally prepared for the break up. Read also: Good to know in case you decided to marry Latvian
Playing the ignore game with Latvian woman do it wise, so she would not think that you have found someone else. One day you can present her flowers and the next day you can ignore her and wait until she contacts you first. If you always write her good night first, this day you don’t write her anything, even if she wants.
To play such a game you have to know your woman very well in order not to offend her. This should be made delicate and wise. If you are both happy in relationship and remain to be yourselves – you better consider to leave everything as it is. It would be the right choice. Act according to the situation.
No one never ever had understood a woman and Latvian women are not an exception. You may use some general hints or tricks to interest her, but everything is rather personal. There are no rules, but there is general understanding, your vision and your intuition.
Latvian women don’t like when guy controls them all the time, but they need to feel the strong man’s shoulder and character. If you don’t like something, you should express her your displeasure. If one day she is happy to call you and the next day she does not answer your calls, you have to explain her that you consider such attitude of her to be not appropriate if you are in relationship. If she chose to watch a movie instead of answering your call you have to tell her that you are angry because of this fact. Of course, she has a right to watch a movie, because this is what she wants at the moment. She does not want to have conversation, because she’s enjoying the movie. But generally this means movie is more important than you. What is the right way out? She has to pick up the phone and ask you to postpone the conversation for later. You should understand her and not to get angry. You’re on the same level: you want conversation, she wants movie.
Women like guys who ignore them and lose interest in guys who give them all their attention. If it is hard for you to make compulsory ignorance? Then try to be busy with something – go to a river side with friends, go for a bike ride or hike to the mountains, do something interesting for you. You’ll be besy with yourself and at the same time make your Latvian woman miss you.
To interest Latvian woman you have to be responsible and reliable in her eyes. You need to have aim in your life – work, business, personal goal – and to keep following this aim no matter what happens. She has to feel that she is important and needed by you, but she is not the center of your universe and you have many things to do. If you would be just romantic guy with flowers, sweet talks and chocolate, but without actions, Latvian woman would not stay with you for long.
You might not be rich, but you have to be active and follow your way to the goal. She has to see this. Actually, this is the best way to interest the woman – to be the getter on your own field. She has to see your efforts, your success and sometimes your fails, but you need to move on all the time. In such a man Latvian woman would notice hints of support and reliable person she would like to be with. You have to demonstrate this, but not to overload her with information. Just be partners for life, but with personal goals. Read also: Is it true Latvian women eager marry with foreigners?